| 420 chat line fiend
June 7, 2006
by potsmokingGOD
Fine! I’ll admit it -- I’m a chat-aholic -- that’s right -- a personals junky, a flip flappin’ 420 chat lines fiend. I wake up and breathe air into my lungs just so I can come online to meet people, swear to god. I chat when the sun comes up,... |
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| 420 Relationship Advice - Are you Being Used?Men and women, use each other all the time and for all soughts of reasons. Sometimes, they use each for the same reasons. They do it for sex; they do it for money. Who cares why they do it. Their self-centeredness leads to one outcome – pain, and believe me, they won’t be the one feeling it. Have you ever asked yourself this: he keeps asking me for sex; I tell him I’m not ready, I feel that I have to put sex off because if I end up having it, he’ll leave. How about this: My girlfriend always asks me for money, I mean all the time, but won’t even buy me so much as a birthday card.
One time or another, we’ve questioned our partner’s motives. It’s hard to tell, early on what the other person’s intentions. Only after the lust clears, do you get your 20/20 back. By then it could be too late, game over, damage done. Yeah-yeah-yeah, loves blind, we all do stupid crap with our blinders on, but doesn’t mean we have to walk off a cliff.
You probably been burned before, join the club. Who hasn’t? Have you learned your lesson? Ah, I doubt it. You say, “I’ve been hurt… never again. Never will I trust another soul. At least until I go clubbing. No! I swear, no more, I’m through.”
Then you meet your soul mate. You fall, and fall hard. Awe, the twinkle in your eye, but time trucks on, and slowly your love blossom wilts. It could be the way he doesn’t keep his promises. The sound in her voice when she tells you she loves you. In any case, something stinks in Amsterdam.
You may think a different guy a different outcome. For some odd reason, you keep attracting the same type. By the way, how can you say “never again?” You have to let your guard down eventually. How would you discover the other person? Do you plan on never being in another relationship? Of course not! If you knew what to lookout for in the first place you might have spared yourself the grief.
But hopes on the horizon, for I’m the bearer of good news. There are signs that you can lookout for. Maybe, they’ll save you the heartache. God fitted you with a snosa for a reason, to smell smoke before you get burnt. Yes my vixen, play it safe and watch for things said, and not said, things done, and not done. It’s probably a good idea not to rush to judgment. Below are few guidelines that should let you know it’s time to high tail it out of the relationship. Think of them as warnings, that If heeded, can help you recognize if your partner in crime is the pot of gold you been searching for or the gold digger that’s been searching for you.
Damn, your neck made of 420 rubber or what?
It is only normal to look at an attractive person, but looking and going out of your way to look are not the same. Am I wrong here? Does your boyfriend get whiplash ever time he spots a sizzling hot woman? Gee, hope not. Does your girlfriend openly flirt with other guys? Would you agree slapping another women’s ass or calling out baby to another guy walking down the street aren’t behaviors one does when they’re in a monogamous relationship? Damn, I feel a 420 moment coming on.
It is easier to read the numbers off a speeding bullet:
She has every reason in the book why she can’t give you her phone number. But the obvious question arises: what’s up, why can’t I get your number? Not even a cell number? C’mon!
A guy might tell you he doesn’t own a phone. “It’s a loner from a friend,” he says.
His friend doesn’t want him giving out the number. Excuses, excuses, excuses and more excuses, enough already. What are your digits?!
You sure have a busy partner, r-e-a-l busy:
Wow, if you saw him more often you would think you actually had a boyfriend. If he can’t find the time to be with you or at least tell you what the hell he’s doing that consumes ninety percent of his time, that’s a red flag.
Talking disparaging about the opposite sex, same sex or whatever sex:
He calls women bitches, sluts, etc. She calls guys dogs, men-are-good-for-nothing, etc. What they say, speaks volumes of how they feel about the opposite sex. Open up your ears and let them talk, and talk, and talk some more; they’ll inevitably show their cards (the good ol’ Freudian slip isn’t a fancy name for a fall, maybe it is, your fall.) Don’t fool yourself into thinking you’re the exception – you’re not!
Money doesn’t grow on trees. In that case, where does it grow, I need a few bucks:
This is a BIG one. If your sweetheart incessantly asks for money, but never has a dime when it’s time to pay, look on. Don’t blame anyone but yourself when your saving account dwindles.
Excuse me. I do believe you forgot my name (you have wax in your ears or somethin’?) Sugar Daddy defiantly isn’t it:
This goes with the asking for money thing. If you are always being asked for money, always being asked to buy things and getting nothing in return, good chance you’re dating a bona fide gold-digger, signed sealed and digging.
It may not be financial. It could be sexual. It’s funny how he doesn’t come around till he’s hot and bothered. You could call him a million times, but he’ll blow you off. Finally your fingers tire and you patience wanes; then you get that call in the middle of the night; the one where he tells you how much he’s missed you and how much he’s been thinking about you. Your heart flutters. Then he pops the, “what are you doing right now, can I come over,” crap. Of course he doesn’t want his love toy straying, just yet. He knows how long to leave you out there bobbing, before he reels you in.
And the topic of discussion is… drum roll please. Me!
Do you know what her topic of discussion is? You guessed it, bub. Her! Everything her, she’ll talk about her friends, talk about that new Gucci bag she wants, talk about how hot she is, talk about this, talk about that. But do you know what she doesn’t talk about? Right again, bub. You!
Same goes for the guys. Football this, baseball that, my friends this, my new girlfriend… that. Yikes!
They can’t even squeeze a, “anyway, forget about me for a second, how about you, how’d your day go,” into their rant. They’re the sun in the center of their own universe. The conversations are about them. In the end it’s only them. You’re no where to be found. Do yourself a favor, let them keep there one-way conversations; go find yourself a real one.
He doesn’t want you around his friends and family.
He keeps you isolated. The mice play when the cats away. One of two reasons why he doesn’t want you around: first, he doesn’t plan on keeping you around. Second, friends and family may spill the beans unintentionally, about things he doesn’t want you to know about.
Let the accusations fly:
A player uses reverse psychology to cover his own deceit. Accusing you of cheating, lying, all the Houdini he’s pulling. He’s saying, “I do it and I know you will, too.”
You don’t want to be jumping the gun. Play it cool and be aware of what the other person is saying and not saying. I think I already wrote that. The point is, if you feel you are being used or being lied to, find someone else. Don’t rationalize why the person does what he does. People use people for a host of reasons. They may have insecurity issues, whatever the reason(s) it’s their problem -- not yours. You don’t have to be a casualty of someone’s destructive relationship policy. There’s plenty of fish in the sea. Some say you can salvage the relationship; communicate they say; Want the truth? I think you know. You can’t teach an old dog, new tricks; let go of the leash. Good luck in your quest for love.
--Tokerhead
Thank you for checking out my 420 relationship advice article.
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